I meet this girl in Kuala Lumpur last year while i was viewing a university( im from Ireland), we keep in contact alot, now it turns out im going to university in bangkok instead......for 2 years doing a masters. Can i have a relationhsp with this girl if i live in bangkok and she lives in Kuala Lumpur? i do like her and the most important thing for me is that she is my equal...i mean by that ....is that she earns as much money as me ....has a good job....well educated. so there is no money issue...or visa issue bullshit you may get with a thailand girl. but can we sustain a relationship with see each other on weekends...and holidays? it seems difficult...is it worth it? she is 32 and i am 30..i cannt help but feeling she should go get a nice guy from KL and not bother with me......cause i see hurt down the road!!...i am a logical thinker and i just think its impossible to maybe do this for 2 years!!.....but then my emotions take over and stop thinking months ahead and live in the moment and i think we can do it.....my brain is fryed thinking about it!!
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1 :
It depends on people and how you feel about each other... Do you think it would be fair to her to ask her to wait that long?
2 :
you can talk to her about it. maybe during your holiday you can meet up with her? its possible but could be tough.
3 :
no
4 :
well...i moved to germany for 5 years with my parents from israel. my boyfriend lives in israel and its allready more then 6 month that we are together and keeping in touch! its really fun we just both go on skype on our freetime and he tells me everything that happend to him and i tell him as well, we suport each other and stuff!! i went to visit in israel twice since i moved and it was really much fun!! she wont do anything with someone else if she really likes u! but u have to give it a try!!! if it doesnt work out then at least u know u tried!! and its a good experience!!! im not saying its easy but its possible and its really fun becausw sometimes being far away from someone makes u love them even more!!
